what difference does it make which name you put first in a slash pairing? for example, what the heck is the difference between simon/jayne & jayne/simon? i saw these both somewhere & was confused... my only guess is it signals which char is more important or more dominant.. since most of the male/female slash pairings i see have the guy first.. like jayne/kaylee, jayne/river, mal/inara, wash/zoe, etc.
so yeah, just thought maybe someone could enlighten me. sorry to bother non-shippers. thanks!